Post by corrina on Sept 10, 2009 18:18:18 GMT -5
Hello,my name is Cory,and I'm married to a wonderful man.Between us we have 5 children,two of mine are 19,one's 17,and his are 4 and 5.Yeah.Back in Oct.07,his children's mother walked out,later in Dec.signing willful abandonment papers.She had visitation,that she only made it to half.We have been together since March 08'.His kids were 2 and 3.Anyways,she got arrested for meth,and that was probably the last straw.We went to court and got full custody.That was May 08'.That was also the last time she seen them,or talked to them.Never sent b-day cards or Christmas cards...nothing.So,July 9,09,she decides she wants to see them again.This is 20 months later!She never complied to the first parenting plan or the final judgement,but holy cow if the judge didn't grant her adequate cause!She claims we've brainwashed the kids,claims parent alienation,claims the children's environment is detrimental to them...after so long of being estranged,how does one know all these things about kids she hasn't seen in 2 years?Child support...that's a good one,when he said he was filing for child support,they handed him a financial declaration!WHAT?How is it men get raked across the coals for child support,yet women don't?What's that all about?Our side still hasn't been heard,because the judge has fallen for all the fictional B.S. she's told him.To the point that we had to hire an attorney just to be heard.It's heartbreaking.She has done nothing but bash us in all her documents,most of which are completely fabricated!All that is being seen is this poor,poor,pitiful mother who's been denied her kids!WHAT?She tries to portray us as the ones who forced her to walk out,we forced her to do drugs and get busted,we forced her to wait 2 years to be some kind of responsible parent for these two.And still the judge procedes.It's so frustrating!Because we know the truth.All we asked is that she submit to random UA's,her response.."Whatever!I don't even care anymore"Yeah,sounds like someone I want around my kids.Funny how the courts favor the mother no matter how CRAPPY of one they are.Busted for meth?I mean come on now!2 years later?These children moved on too, right after she did.She claims the only reason He "took" the kids away from her is because she didn't come back to him.Oh my goodness folks!She's the one who walked out.She seems to forget that...alot!
I'm really glad I found this website,people don't understand how hard men have it trying to fight for their kids.It's ridiculous!My husband works his butt to the bone for us,we sit down to dinner every night,we go to church every Sunday,we don't drink,or do any kind of drugs.Got the house,the yard,no white picket fence yet.This family revolves around these 2 children.It's very frustrating.My husband is in a suprise court date right now as I write...we were just informed today about it,and we found out over the internet,on the courts website.NICE!Another days wages gone!Thanks so much for letting me vent,like the other gal on here says,I also believe the courts need to get with the time!
I'm really glad I found this website,people don't understand how hard men have it trying to fight for their kids.It's ridiculous!My husband works his butt to the bone for us,we sit down to dinner every night,we go to church every Sunday,we don't drink,or do any kind of drugs.Got the house,the yard,no white picket fence yet.This family revolves around these 2 children.It's very frustrating.My husband is in a suprise court date right now as I write...we were just informed today about it,and we found out over the internet,on the courts website.NICE!Another days wages gone!Thanks so much for letting me vent,like the other gal on here says,I also believe the courts need to get with the time!
