Just Don't get it it....

[jlindsey71]

My name is Jeff and I have 2 boys 16 and 12, a year ago My 16yr old got mad at me during a period of possession because I took his cell phone away for punching a dent in the side of my truck (he did this because I made him separate for a few minutes from his girlfriend which he was making out with at a family function). After removing his cell phone he became irate and assaulted my wife, punched holes in my wall and threw furniture. I called the police because he was out of control, then I called his mother who refused to pick him up until the next day. After that incident he did not visit my home or speak to me for 4 months however his 12yr old brother did without any incident. After letting him cool down for those 4 months I insisted that I see him for my ordered visitation, he cried and threw a fit to his mom and she popped me with a restraining order preventing me from seeing either of my sons. Well I hired a lawyer and went for a temp hearing where she claimed that I was an alcoholic and that my son(16) was afraid of me. Without any word from my attorney the judge ordered me to anger management a slew of parenting classes and an alcohol urine test every Monday for 90 days and no overnights with my sons also I was to pay 1000 of her attorney fees. Well I did all classes pissed clean every time for 90 days and haven't seen my sons for 2 months because she will not allow me to. I have a hearing in 2 weeks to enforce visitation and she is attempting to raise my child support which is already 1400 a month. My son has a police record for assault and is under investigation for sending inappropriate txt to girls and I am the one being punished. In my order it also states that I am not allowed to call the police I am not allowed to remove cell phones, and I am not allowed to make him do chores. My younger son wants to live here badly but isn't even allowed to see me. I don't get it.....my Judge is very bias and my attorney isn't doing anything to help me despite the 5k he has been paid!

[Harrison]

Hi Jeff, Sorry to hear your attorney has sold you down the river, BIG TIME! It's very common, look at the money they have made from the system and done the nearest thing to nothing, humanly possible. It happens A LOT.
For us to help you the state your in is a vital piece of info.
Was there any criminal charges filed against you? That is the corner stone on which a restraining orders are based. If the judge didn't allow testimony from you side, your due process rights were violated!!!!
You have a hearing in two weeks to enforce visitation?
If the RO has been drop or your day visits have been interfered with, you should be attending a contempt hearing against the ex.
On the upside you have jumped through their commonly used hoops used as delay and misdirection tactics. It's time to play hard ball!!!!!!
That attorney WORKS FOR YOU!!! Most new world monkey's could do his job and more than likely get better results. What court are you in family or superior?
Our tactics are simple corner the judge and make them fallow the law and procedure through the siting of president, statue,federal and constitutional law, you know the stuff they like to, let's go with over look. Oh yeah, the judge can't order you to not do any of those dumb ass things, because they all violate your civil liberties and that makes the order illegal and void.
So I guess my first questions are:
What state?
What court?
Is the RO still up?
We may need to see your paper work, it will be kept confidential if you wish. Hope to hear from you soon. Harrison

[Jim]

I agree with Harrison.
By the sounds of it, if a serial killer enters your home, you will be in contempt of court if you call the police in order to save your life.....
You can not ask your children to put their dishes in the sink after they are done eating because it is a chore and you will be in contempt of court? Seriously now! I have got to see this order. This judge should recuse himnself/herself from this case. this is one of the most ridiculous things I've heard in an order in quite a while.
first things first would be to get visitation kick started again and for you to see your kids. A motion should be filed and the court moved to find the ex in contempt for denying visitation.
Sounds like she is playing the system bigtime and should be found guilty of abusive and frivilous litigation against you.
These things being done to you and your children are beyond ridiculous and we will help you if we can.

[Harrison]

I knew!!! you were gona have a strong opinion about this. What part of WRONG don't these people under stand?!? Isn't procedure day one???