Post by Daniel H on May 19, 2013 1:11:19 GMT -5
well in a nut shell and to the point, a bit more than 6 months ago my ex wife decided to toss the parenting plan out of the window. I have text messages to prove this ( save everything!) she simply moved , refused to let me know where, or who with, would not let me even talk to my son on the phone, receive any school updates, medical updates ( at the time he had a broken arm from daycare), during the six months she has taken him on a few out of state trips with out my knowledge or permission.
I have been paying child support to her during all this even though i could not see my son (have receipts) i just learned that she has been advocating to the child support people that i be placed in contempt for failure to pay, so they are doing so.
I was recently able to convince the school to email me copies of his records, he has missed 28.5 days in the last six months, and his current address on file was incorrect and he should have been in another school.
I know the address because two weeks ago she all the sudden changed her tune and let me see him for a weekend, (thank god because i missed him so very much) she had invited me to stay at her house for the weekend while she went somewhere else and left me with him. when I had arrived the house was NASTY NASTY NASTY!! dishes pilled everywhere with mold growing on them and not a clean dish in the house, never been vacuumed, and just a disaster.
I took lots of pics and videos of the place while I was there but didn't tell her to clean up or anything out of fear of being cut out of his life again.
but now that I have found out about the child support ordeal and the fact she has been playing both sides like a fiddle and I am now facing jail time, I decided to fight back!
I went ahead and notified the school of his current address, I also contacted CPS and let them know of the living conditions along with the missed school days.....
Now of course I am being denied my son again by her, regardless of what the parenting plan states.
I am too poor to obtain a lawyer, I am facing jail time for child support (which I paid), and I have no idea how to start demanding in the court room for my rights as a father to be respected!!!! and enforced.
Please help.
I have been paying child support to her during all this even though i could not see my son (have receipts) i just learned that she has been advocating to the child support people that i be placed in contempt for failure to pay, so they are doing so.
I was recently able to convince the school to email me copies of his records, he has missed 28.5 days in the last six months, and his current address on file was incorrect and he should have been in another school.
I know the address because two weeks ago she all the sudden changed her tune and let me see him for a weekend, (thank god because i missed him so very much) she had invited me to stay at her house for the weekend while she went somewhere else and left me with him. when I had arrived the house was NASTY NASTY NASTY!! dishes pilled everywhere with mold growing on them and not a clean dish in the house, never been vacuumed, and just a disaster.
I took lots of pics and videos of the place while I was there but didn't tell her to clean up or anything out of fear of being cut out of his life again.
but now that I have found out about the child support ordeal and the fact she has been playing both sides like a fiddle and I am now facing jail time, I decided to fight back!
I went ahead and notified the school of his current address, I also contacted CPS and let them know of the living conditions along with the missed school days.....
Now of course I am being denied my son again by her, regardless of what the parenting plan states.
I am too poor to obtain a lawyer, I am facing jail time for child support (which I paid), and I have no idea how to start demanding in the court room for my rights as a father to be respected!!!! and enforced.
Please help.