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Post by bburgtj05 on Jun 9, 2009 15:16:12 GMT -5
Hello to everyone out there, my name is TJ and I am a father of one. My son means the world to me, and I don't get to see him. About two years ago I started divorce proceedings with my now ex-wife. Upon the beginning of the divorce my ex-wife used my son as a tool of control to get the things she wanted. Ever since I've never had my son over for one night, I've never had half of the custody time I was awarded. I don't get to see him anymore because of her now husband. My contact with my son is limited to the phone calls I make everyday. Which consist of her telling my son to say Hi Daddy, Love You Daddy, Bye Daddy. I'm tired of this situation. After ending my enlistment with the US Navy I've found that I have no rights as a single father. We've been to court over and over again, and I cannot get the judges to enforce any sort of parenting situation. I've tapped out my resources and money and I don't know where to turn to. I was excited to find today that there are others like myself out there and that I'm not alone. I hope that this group is more than just a blog site. I hope that we have members here who want to fight for others like myself. I hope that sometime in the near future we can end the oppression of fathers in the court room. I pray that one day America realizes just how evil we've allowed these women to become. Mothers like my ex-wife need to be held accountable for the crimes they commit. And I fully support any bill that would criminalize withholding children. If men can be thrown in jail for non payment of childsupport then women should be subject to jailment of withholding children.
~TJ
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Chrem88
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Micheal Jackson Has Died @ 50.RIP MJ
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Post by Chrem88 on Jun 9, 2009 16:15:35 GMT -5
All i can say to that post.IS AMEN AMEN. Also glad to have u here
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Post by Jim on Jun 9, 2009 17:09:12 GMT -5
Hello to everyone out there, my name is TJ and I am a father of one. My son means the world to me, and I don't get to see him. About two years ago I started divorce proceedings with my now ex-wife. Upon the beginning of the divorce my ex-wife used my son as a tool of control to get the things she wanted. Ever since I've never had my son over for one night, I've never had half of the custody time I was awarded. I don't get to see him anymore because of her now husband. My contact with my son is limited to the phone calls I make everyday. Which consist of her telling my son to say Hi Daddy, Love You Daddy, Bye Daddy. I'm tired of this situation. After ending my enlistment with the US Navy I've found that I have no rights as a single father. We've been to court over and over again, and I cannot get the judges to enforce any sort of parenting situation. I've tapped out my resources and money and I don't know where to turn to. I was excited to find today that there are others like myself out there and that I'm not alone. I hope that this group is more than just a blog site. I hope that we have members here who want to fight for others like myself. I hope that sometime in the near future we can end the oppression of fathers in the court room. I pray that one day America realizes just how evil we've allowed these women to become. Mothers like my ex-wife need to be held accountable for the crimes they commit. And I fully support any bill that would criminalize withholding children. If men can be thrown in jail for non payment of childsupport then women should be subject to jailment of withholding children. ~TJ Hi Tj, Thanks for signing onto the FRAMED Talkboard. Sadly your story sounds all too familiar to me and Criminals have more rights than Fathers in these kangaroo courts now-a-days. What state do you live in? and does your ex live in the same state? Me and BertaSue (the moderator here) and our friends/team work with parents to try to correct some of the damage done through these courts to try to better these sad situations. Many times we do what we can do and not much happens, and other times we can get people on the right track to make their situations better. It boils down to the actual parent getting educated on their options and with codes and procedures, and to get VERY proactive with their cases that really determine any positive results. We can help you do that once we look at and study your paperwork/orders that are now in place and learn more about your case and what you want to do. We work through private means, either through the password protected conference room section of this forum, through private chats, on the telephone, emails etc., once we thouroughly look at your paperwork and talk with you more. Thats just an intro to what we can possibly do to help. By the brief description of your post, it sounds like you may have a lengthy road to travel and actions need to be filed immediately to get you atleast visiting your children again, then we could work on further remedies. I'm just speculating right now since I have no idea about what the language is in your orders, and the history of your case (details). BertaSue is on vacation for the next few days. When she gets back we will look into this further. I could create a private conference room that is password protected for you to jot down a timeline and list of court orders, and other info that you may deem important. Just let me know, only you and I and BertaSue would have the password to it so it is pretty private and safe. All other documents should be done through email and will be shared privately between us three and our few trusted freinds that will help us work with you. We use the Google (gmail) documents software which is also safe and private. Take care...... Let me know if you want me to open a conference room for you, I'll email you the password to it once its created.
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Post by Jim on Jun 9, 2009 17:19:06 GMT -5
PS you'll also have to activate your account here with the email sent to the email address that you registered here with to be able to use all this sites functions.
Thanks,
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