Post by MissingHeather on Jun 19, 2009 21:00:02 GMT -5
I want to start by saying I am truly sorry I have not been able to post since I registered in February. But had something major happen today and I just don't know what to do. I hope someone will have some sort of ideas. Let me start by telling you a little background. My husband and I met in April 2007, he was separated from his now ex-wife since December 2006. Wewere married March 2008. He has a beautiful daughter who will soon be 6 but due to the ex he has not been able to have contact since November 2007 and not for a lack of trying. She moved to another state and accused him of molesting her (then)7 year old older daughter. She went to 2 states and 4 different court systems, she signed an arrest warrant and he was arrested and spent 12 days in jail (the man has never even had a speeding ticket NO trouble with the law of any type). When we finally had him released the detective said the only reason they even arrested him was because she would not stop calling them and that was the only way to make her stop. All charges were dropped and it was no billed. She then went to another state in which she managed to get the courts to agree that the only way for him to see or speak to his daughter was with a supervised visit for 2 hours for which he has to pay a "supervisor" it has to be during their regular business hours (no weekends) and set up min. of 2 weeks in advance. with the mother agreeing to the time. It is approx 800 miles one way to get from where we live to where she has taken his daughter. He is paying $525 each month in child support. He is not even allowed to talk to his daughter by phone because the ex says no.His parents travel and have been able to take her to court to have grandparent visitation of 4 hours at the mall with the mother present and they are not allowed to speak my husband(their son's) name or the ex will not allow them to see her. But to bring you to today's wonderful Father's Day weekend surprise, he was served with papers to have his daughter's name changed to her former (now
deceased )husband's name,who she said how abusive he was to her and the children but is now speaking to her from the grave. She has no job, draw SS for herself since she was 18 (she changes why to suit her when you ask), SSI for her 3 children with the deceased ex and the $525 per month from child support.BTW this woman has been involved with CPS since the 90's and has dropped her children off with them at least 2 times saying she didn't want them then changing her mind and went through their 6 month program that made her such a wonderful mother that her own counselor said she didn't think she should have them but the courts gave them back anyway. I could go on and on. the lies, the tape recordings that the courts won't listen to, the libel and slander that she has committed that we are told can't do anything about. And now wants to change his daughter's name because he "has no contact with her"
???if anyone has any ideas PLEASE help, i am at my wits end with this woman. 
deceased )husband's name,who she said how abusive he was to her and the children but is now speaking to her from the grave. She has no job, draw SS for herself since she was 18 (she changes why to suit her when you ask), SSI for her 3 children with the deceased ex and the $525 per month from child support.BTW this woman has been involved with CPS since the 90's and has dropped her children off with them at least 2 times saying she didn't want them then changing her mind and went through their 6 month program that made her such a wonderful mother that her own counselor said she didn't think she should have them but the courts gave them back anyway. I could go on and on. the lies, the tape recordings that the courts won't listen to, the libel and slander that she has committed that we are told can't do anything about. And now wants to change his daughter's name because he "has no contact with her"
???if anyone has any ideas PLEASE help, i am at my wits end with this woman. 
