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Post by Jim on Jan 4, 2010 13:16:17 GMT -5
Never lose hope when your children are being alienated from you, they are smarter than you think and deep down somewhere inside of them they will know the truth....the heart can not lie.
Positive healthy thinking or "knowing" will only benefit you and your child(ren) spiritually and subconsciously, regardless if you are religious or not.
Just because a child agrees "or plays along" with the alienating parent doesn't always mean that they believe them or that they are 100% brainwashed. They are too young to emotionally grasp what is actually happening and/or in fear of losing that parent too. They really have no way out so to speak. So they must "play along" with the sick parent to feel secure in a sense. Sickening, but something to think about.
For you (as the alienated parent) to lose hope, faith, or to stop fighting is cutting that final cord and allows the alienator to succeed/win. This is not just a physical abuse that is occuring, it is also a spiritual abuse and must be fought both ways. This is my opinion and I truly believe this war must be fought on both fronts, the physical and the spiritual. ...
FramedFather
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Post by mrvn11206 on Mar 29, 2011 22:13:25 GMT -5
Thank You
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Post by wargames102 on Mar 30, 2011 5:34:41 GMT -5
This is so true! My Son who was/is PAS'ed for over eighteen years now know's this and is studying this today so that it doesn't repeat in generation cycle between him and his son. I never gave up!!! And now we are here...  |
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Post by bricklayer on Mar 30, 2011 9:24:30 GMT -5
Isaiah 8:18 (Hebrews 2:13 [ so Jesus is not ashamed... Rev(KJV) 19:6]) Here am I, and the children the LORD God omnipotent has given me.  Malachi 4:6 "See, I will send you the prophet Elijah [1Kings 17:1] before that great and dreadful day of the LORD comes. He will turn the hearts of the fathers to their children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers; or else I will come and strike the land with a curse." [Isaiah 4:1] Luke 1:17 "... And he will go on before the LORD, in the spirit and power of Elijah, to turn the hearets of the fathers to their children and the disobedient to the . . . wisdom . . . of . . . the . . . righteouse--to make ready a people prepared for the LORD." [Matt 11:12-15] |
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Post by Jim on Mar 31, 2011 15:26:13 GMT -5
The day I give up is the day I cease to breathe air.....
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Post by peteg2254 on Apr 1, 2011 11:07:46 GMT -5
3-30-2011
Dear Governor Christie:
My name is Pete G.. My son, Thomas [now 14] was moved to NJ in 2006 w/o my knowledge. My company went out of business in 2007 in Md. & I filed a Motion for Child Support Modification in Md. The motion was never heard.
My ex, moved the jurisdiction of the case [#FM 1081-J ]to NJ in 2008 [as I thought I would be moving to NJ] after she moved in with one of your employees, XXX=hell, Public Defender Attorney for your Office of Parental Representation & has assisted her, while committing fraud, to filing bogus motions to the court [she signs as pro se] perpetuating these monies I do not owe. The award of Child Support was set @ $600 per month in Md. when I earned $60,000 per year. That job ended in Oct., 2007. In NJ your Judge Roger Daley refused to hear or accept my written my documents proving my company was shut down in Md. & I have suffered AN EXTREME CHANGE IN FINANCIAL POSITION, warranting a corresponding reduction in Child Support owed.
Judge Daley put a 30 day order on me for $9,282 in Jan., '09. I was able to borrow the money to pay by the 29th day of the order. He had me arrested anyways screaming the day of the order, "That I'll PERSONALLY send these 2 troopers down to pick you up." He is acting corruptly & in COLLUSION with XXXXchell [who falsified his ID in 2007 to illegally obtain my driving records--documented].
I now have TWO BOGUS CHILD SUPPORT ARREST WARRANTS OUTSTANDING, as I cannot enter the state to DEFEND MYSELF nor do I have $5-7K to hire an attorney.
I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO SEE MY SON IN 3 YEARS THANKS TO THIS CORRUPT SYSTEM WITH XXXXX WORKING THE BACK ROOM CREATING PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME WITH THE HELP OF THE STATE OF NJ.!!
I NEED TO HAVE THESE WARRANTS VACATED AND MY HEARING TO TAKE PLACE WITH OUT J. DALEY SO MY SUPPORT CAN BE RETROACTIVELY REDUCED AND MY ACCOUNT CREDITED WITH THE $14,800 DOLLARS I HAVE PAID SINCE 2009.
PEOPLE WHO DON'T PAY MORTGAGES GET TO STAY IN THEIR HOMES & PEOPLE THAT OWE BOGUS EXCESSIVE CHILD SUPPORT DON'T GET TO SEE THEIR CHILD. THIS COULD NOT BE ANYMORE CORRUPT OR WRONGFUL JUSTICE POSSIBLE.
PLEASE ALLOW ME TO PRESENT MY CASE IN AN OBJECTIVE COURT WITHOUT HANDCUFFS.
BTW, IF THE GOVERNOR WOULD LIKE TO VIEW THE TRUE SKELETONS OF MR. XXXXELL'S BACKGROUND WITH HIS OWN CHILDREN [AS HE WORKS FOR OPR & NJ FAMILIES], GO UNSEAL HIS DIVORCE DOCUMENTS HE HAD SEALED WHEN I LEARNED OF THEIR CONTENTS 8-18-2008. YOU WILL BE SHOCKED AND DISGUSTED.
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Post by Jim on Apr 1, 2011 19:00:32 GMT -5
Sorry you are going through this mess Pete, we and millions of others seem to be in the same boat when it comes to our relationship with our children, it isn't right what the system does to so many good parents, AND EVEN MORE WRONG WHAT THEY ARE DOING TO OUR CHILDREN!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by Jim on Nov 29, 2012 22:54:13 GMT -5
Another thought to ponder on for all the delusional people that think Parental Alienation isn't real..... Imagine this: You take your elderly parents and put them in a nursing home and refuse to tell your siblings what you've done to mom and dad and refuse to let them know where they are at and tell them they have NO RIGHT to ever see them or talk to them again....your siblings beg you to tell them where mom and dad are at at and you file restraining orders on all your brothers and sisters because they are harassing you trying to see their parents and trying to get you to tell them where their mom and dad are because they love them and worried sick about their well being....and can't stand not being able to see them...their hearts are broken! Isn't this also a case of "Parental Alienation"  ?? |
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Post by Harrison on Nov 30, 2012 16:38:38 GMT -5
YES!!!!! I would love to see my reaction to said sistuation.
it WOULD NOT be humaine
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Post by Jim on Jun 7, 2014 8:27:39 GMT -5
Evil is not something you catch such as a cold or the flu, evil is a conscious choice....a conscious choice which violates natural law, a violation of the self and others....a conscious choice that violates love.
What many of us parents go through just to remain in our children's lives is nothing more than a projection of evil from others, an unnecessary fight forced upon us by others who are hell bent on causing misery, pain and harm.....forced upon us by those who violate the laws of love....forced upon us by those who embrace evil.
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