IrishDadnWA - A father erased & replaced

[IrishDadnWA]

[glow=red,2,300][/glow]For ten long and agonizing years, my children's mother and her husband have used his wealth and influence in the small community of Jefferson County, WA, to smear me, then change my sons’ identity and keep me from accessing them or any of my family. Then they set out to ruin me in every possible way so I could never fight for my sons in court.

I was never accused of any form of abuse, no wrong doings, no criminal activities, nothing that could possible justify limited or zero access to my children. It has been so hard to fight their team of lawyers or get anywhere in the courts. The local courts there seem to do whatever Harper asks of them. I have been ordered to pay nearly $1K per month in support, without any access to my children and their names were all changed twice, first in 2001 to their mother’s maiden name and then again in 2006 to their step-father’s last name. Neither time was I, their father, considered. It was as if I did not exist. And that is exactly what has happened in my case. Without my having any say in the matter, my young wife abducted our children, fled the State of Washington, came back months later, took up with my best friend, married him, changed all my children’s names, told them to call her new hubby “dad” and just like that, their loving, devoted father was erased and replaced. My children have no memories of me. They have all been brainwashed to hate their father without ever having the opportunity to even know him. My sons are being abused, regardless of the outward appearance of their lives, they have been trained and rewarded to hate their real father, and while they play house with Nick and Kristie, there will come a point when it ends, then the truth will come to the surface, and the symptoms and results of a childhood of mental and emotional abuse will rear its ugly head and there will be Hell to pay.

My children’s abusers and abductors had hoped they would destroy me and eventually defeat me, but 10 years later, I’m still fighting….I’m not going away and I’m never giving up until my children have been set free! Nothing will stop me, nothing!

[Jim]

One of the sad things about stories like yours, like mine, is that the common person you'd meet on the street would listen to us and not believe us and would instantly think we were lieing or did something bad to deserve this. (of course they wouldnt think of the children first either).

But as we both know because we have lived it, these are not stories..........it is the truth.

Alot of people dont realize either who or what is truely the cause of this horseshit being done to parent/child relationships either...........such as "your ex must be a sick bitch or dick" or what did you do to your ex to piss them off so much?" Yeah, we can blame the ex only to a certain extent, the ones who are really to blame are the attorneys and state officials and judges who make it so.

If there is only one thing I have learned so far that makes any difference what so ever, it would have to be that my narcissistic vindictive hateful pathetic excuse for my daughters mother would of never been able to do half the shit that has been done to me and my daughter if it wasn't for:
1.) her sickening pathetic attorney
2.) my pathetic attorneys
3.) 4 ignorant and criminal judges
4.) multi-billion dollar incentive programs
5.) no accountability for these scum bags

and more..................

I'm completely discusted with what this country has become when it comes to treating people as less than human and like worthless sheep only to line their pockets. This country doesnt care about us and our children, or families.

The judge who gave your children the last name of their step dad (without allowing you to say a word about it) should be jailed for child abuse and fed stagnant water daily for life. No HUMAN should be allowed to do what these scumbags do to families and children. The list goes on and on and only now are more people are starting to see what is truely going on, why, because it is escalating and happening to more and more people all the time. Especially now with the economy in chaos, they need to destroy even more families for their funding of this huge government destructive machine.

It'll get worse Irishdad..............I really believe that. People seem to just sit back and watch it happen rather than to stand up and fight.

We may see results here soon though, with another major hiccup in the economy were people cannot afford a roof over their heads or a loaf of bread to eat, maybe then they will get the nerve to hit the streets and fight for their rights and justice. Nothing more dangerous than a country full of starving people with a grudge.

[IrishDadnWA]

Events are unfolding that show the true colors of those who kidnapped and changed my sons identity, abusing and brainwashing them. From the day my ex and her "lovin man" began their torrid affair and hatched the idea to erase me as my children's father, their methods have remained the same; isolate, alienate, and incriminate.

Last night the word was passed onto me that four Federal Agents showed up at my friends home, in Mesa, AZ, asking about my whereabouts. Apparently my blogs and or emails have been twisted and found to be threatening in a way that is displeasing to my children's abductors/abusers? While admittedly, I have been a very frustrated parent, being kept from any and all contact from my three sons for eleven years, by my ex and a man whom was my best friend and like a brother to me... my writing merely reflects what any level-minded parent would ask and feel about those that had done what these sick people have done to my children, my family and I.

I was not the one who took this man's wife and three sons... nor did I use my wealth and lies and corrupted courts and law enforcement to make this man into a criminal and destroy him. The pawns, court officials and law enforcement, have willingly aided and promoted an attack against my rights and my character, attempting to label me as a criminal and emotionally disturbed man. Hmmm, I have never broken a law that I know of, and as for the emotional part... I have to confess, I have been a wreck sometimes, I mean after all, my wife only had an affair with my best friend, abducted our three babies while the youngest was barely a couple of months old, she moved countless times, obtained a restraining order without cause or service, or even an allegation of any form of abuse, changed all my sons names to her new man's last name, and has allowed me zero contact with the three children for eleven years... Yet comes after me for thousands in child support, and tells everyone I am some psycho, deadbeat dad who abandoned them.

For three years, a nationwide alert on the national criminal database was active on me, for a civil bench warrant for a civil contempt charge out of one of the most corrupt courts in the country, Shreveport, LA... this was the doing of my ex, seems she could not stand me to fight for my children and have a wife that supported me, so she and her then wealthy husband hired two lawyers, one in Washington State, where the original corruption of the case took place, and one in Shreveport, LA, where I was living with my new wife and family... They came after me on child support only after they realized I was seeking access to my children with a real chance of getting it. I paid thousands in child support until I realized I was never going to be allowed to be my sons father. How they got the Louisiana courts involved is still a mystery, the entire case is in Washington State, my ex and the children live in Washington State.... yet somehow the most corrupt courts in the country got my case and assisted in criminalizing me.

While on a trip near Louisiana, I was pulled over by a Texas State Trooper, I was nearly shot, and then was arrested and held in a county jail over Easter weekend for Louisiana to extradite me on the civil contempt bench warrant... I maintained that my rights were being violated and eventually was released when the Texas officials discovered the facts about the bench warrant and the law that prevents any interstate extradition on non-criminal issues. So why was I on a national criminal data base for three years on a civil bench warrant for a failure to appear on a civil hearing that I was never served on or knew anything about? I have not lived in Louisiana for several years, yet my ex and her "man" have done everything to harass my family and friends there and keep me in a "fugitive-criminal" status?

Yes, the courts and law enforcement are being used and played in an effort to prevent me from ever fighting for my rights as a parent again. My ex and her "man" have convinced everyone whom will listen to them that I am this criminally, emotionally disturbed threat to them... when in truth they are only afraid of the truth getting out of how they have abducted and abused our three sons since they were too young to remember their real father. I recently wrote a rather blunt email, like all of mine over the last decade to the man who was once my best friend and now calls himself my sons only dad... and in that email I left some open ended questions and told him that I was moving forward with justice... apparently this has been twisted to translate into I could possibly do him harm... which is a load of crap, if that were the case it would have went down when I learned of his affair with my wife. He just can't stand that I may expose him for who and what he really is... and to shut me down he will stop at nothing in order to keep his dark-side from being exposed.

I have uncovered some disturbing information on this man in recent days, and I will wait for it to be exposed through others, because anything I do is dismissed as a "vendetta" and he runs to the courts and cries foul. This is his way, he is a cry baby, he cannot stand for people to see his true colors. Me, Hell, I have been smeared so much that I just don't care anymore... And the Saga continues.......