Post by Jim on Feb 12, 2009 7:26:21 GMT -5
By Shawn, A Father and a Casualty of The War Against Families….
I have written many blogs, describing the pain and anguish behind the alienation of my children over the past ten years... but perhaps the greatest sorrow I have is for my parents, my children's grandparents, whom have also been alienated and prevented from knowing or seeing their three grandsons for all these years as well.
My father is now close to the end of his life, he will not be with us likely this time next year, or much sooner, and I cannot even offer him a logical explanation as to why he cannot see his grandsons before he passes?
My dad and I spoke for a while last week, and we both felt such an emptiness where my children were concerned. The lack of compassion and concern by my children's own mother is both disgusting and abusive in nature. For ten years, my three sons have been forcefully erased from my family's lives. This case has even been taken before the State Supreme Court in Washington State, yet no judges would consider reversing it.
So what do I tell a dying grandfather when he asks about his grandsons and I have no answers?
If you know my ex wife or her husband, could you please ask them how they could do this to my sons and our family? I am afraid I know how this will finally end, after all, I have exhausted my resources with the corrupt courts and I have offered pleading after pleading to my sons abductors, but their resolve is iron clad, they have created delusional, fictional images in their minds of they being somehow justified in the abduction, brainwashing and abuse of my three children. So the resolve of my actions is now justified and without question the right thing to do.
I grew up believing in the ideal of being honest, true and honorable, and I guess it was very wrong to believe others should be the same. My naive sense of loyalty to my best friend cost me my marriage and my relationship with my three children. This despicable and hideous man wormed his way into my life, posing as my lifelong best friend who I grew up with. It took this animal barely a year to find a way to separate myself from my wife and children... it was easy, he just bought them. Then he set his inherited resources to destroy me, knowing that I was not going to do him bodily harm because I was not a violent natured man. Most men who would dare to do what my old friend did would be afraid of terminal danger... but he wasn't, he knew my heart.
He does not know me anymore, my heart is changed, and when the Supreme Court closed the door on me being a father to my sons after ten years, that day I knew what I had to do in order to avenge this cruel scheme that has destroyed my children's hopes of knowing their real father.
I have carefully instituted my own scheme, and as it plays out there will be no appeals or second chances. There are lawyers and judges who will realize they broke the law, and they will be held accountable. As for the ex and her husband, they get the grand prize. I am an American, I am a Christian, a Former Marine, and I am a son, a grandson, a nephew, a cousin, a brother, a father and grandfather and a husband.... I know who and what I am. I have fought and sweated and bled for my country and those I served with, and I did not survive the sting of battle to this end, to watch some coward come and pay for the whore he is married to, and take my sons, change their names to his, and erase me and the children's real family... No! This is not how it ends!
I have conducted my entire adult life, with few exceptions, as a law-abiding, good and giving man, I lived to be a father and a husband, and one day a man, posing as my friend, walked into my home and took my wife and family from me. I fell into a cavern of self-pity and arguably the worst imaginable pain. It took years to regain my composure and stand again with my honor and faith in tact. I remarried a wonderfully beautiful woman whom has stood next to me with her children, supporting and fighting for my children, as they were her own.
I owe my children and my wife, and my family, and all denied parents more than this; I will not stop until this wrong is made right! I will turn the courts and their corrupt errand boys into a river of justice before I am done. My resolve is bigger than me, it is a million strong, or more, and we are coming, it is simply a matter of when.
Shawn Monahan
Port Townsend, Washington
www. myspace. com/IrishDadnWA
IrishDadnWA@aol.com
I have written many blogs, describing the pain and anguish behind the alienation of my children over the past ten years... but perhaps the greatest sorrow I have is for my parents, my children's grandparents, whom have also been alienated and prevented from knowing or seeing their three grandsons for all these years as well.
My father is now close to the end of his life, he will not be with us likely this time next year, or much sooner, and I cannot even offer him a logical explanation as to why he cannot see his grandsons before he passes?
My dad and I spoke for a while last week, and we both felt such an emptiness where my children were concerned. The lack of compassion and concern by my children's own mother is both disgusting and abusive in nature. For ten years, my three sons have been forcefully erased from my family's lives. This case has even been taken before the State Supreme Court in Washington State, yet no judges would consider reversing it.
So what do I tell a dying grandfather when he asks about his grandsons and I have no answers?
If you know my ex wife or her husband, could you please ask them how they could do this to my sons and our family? I am afraid I know how this will finally end, after all, I have exhausted my resources with the corrupt courts and I have offered pleading after pleading to my sons abductors, but their resolve is iron clad, they have created delusional, fictional images in their minds of they being somehow justified in the abduction, brainwashing and abuse of my three children. So the resolve of my actions is now justified and without question the right thing to do.
I grew up believing in the ideal of being honest, true and honorable, and I guess it was very wrong to believe others should be the same. My naive sense of loyalty to my best friend cost me my marriage and my relationship with my three children. This despicable and hideous man wormed his way into my life, posing as my lifelong best friend who I grew up with. It took this animal barely a year to find a way to separate myself from my wife and children... it was easy, he just bought them. Then he set his inherited resources to destroy me, knowing that I was not going to do him bodily harm because I was not a violent natured man. Most men who would dare to do what my old friend did would be afraid of terminal danger... but he wasn't, he knew my heart.
He does not know me anymore, my heart is changed, and when the Supreme Court closed the door on me being a father to my sons after ten years, that day I knew what I had to do in order to avenge this cruel scheme that has destroyed my children's hopes of knowing their real father.
I have carefully instituted my own scheme, and as it plays out there will be no appeals or second chances. There are lawyers and judges who will realize they broke the law, and they will be held accountable. As for the ex and her husband, they get the grand prize. I am an American, I am a Christian, a Former Marine, and I am a son, a grandson, a nephew, a cousin, a brother, a father and grandfather and a husband.... I know who and what I am. I have fought and sweated and bled for my country and those I served with, and I did not survive the sting of battle to this end, to watch some coward come and pay for the whore he is married to, and take my sons, change their names to his, and erase me and the children's real family... No! This is not how it ends!
I have conducted my entire adult life, with few exceptions, as a law-abiding, good and giving man, I lived to be a father and a husband, and one day a man, posing as my friend, walked into my home and took my wife and family from me. I fell into a cavern of self-pity and arguably the worst imaginable pain. It took years to regain my composure and stand again with my honor and faith in tact. I remarried a wonderfully beautiful woman whom has stood next to me with her children, supporting and fighting for my children, as they were her own.
I owe my children and my wife, and my family, and all denied parents more than this; I will not stop until this wrong is made right! I will turn the courts and their corrupt errand boys into a river of justice before I am done. My resolve is bigger than me, it is a million strong, or more, and we are coming, it is simply a matter of when.
Shawn Monahan
Port Townsend, Washington
www. myspace. com/IrishDadnWA
IrishDadnWA@aol.com
